To have sex, I pretend to have orgasms. My partner has a lot of sex. If he could, he would stretch his leg twice day.
I find the whole situation to be a sticky, irritating one. My best buddy tells me that I should stop lying to him and that it is bad for me to trick him in this way. Do I?
I feel like you’re losing out, Jane says. You have a passionate and vivacious sweetheart, but you’re depriving yourself of happiness.
Do you too need to adopt a new perspective in order to maximize each sexual encounter? Do you need to get through a mental or physical obstacle? Being open and honest with your guy would be a fantastic place to start.